The First Anniversary Mass and Blessings for the families of the Carrickmines Fire Tragedy

10 Oct 2016

The First Anniversary Mass and Blessings for the families of the Carrickmines Fire Tragedy

Monday 10 October 2016

Thomas and Sylvia Connors, their children Jim, Christy, and baby Mary, Jimmy Lynch, Willie Lynch and Tara Gilbert and their daughters Jodie, Kelsey and their unborn child all lost their lives in tragic circumstances one year ago this week.  Those who died and those who mourn them will be remembered at Masses in Ballyally and Bray, today Monday 10 October 2016.

  • 10.00am          Mass – Church of the Ascension of the Lord, Balally, Sandyford, Dublin 18
  • 3.00pm          Mass – Church of the Holy Redeemer, Bray

Celebrant in Balally will be Mgr. Dermot Lane and Celebrant in Bray will be Father Derek Farrell – both assisted by the priests of the parishes and neighbouring parishes.


Church of the Ascension, Balally Parish, Dublin 16: Introduction by Fr. Dermot Lane, Principal celebrant and  Homily from Fr Derek Farrell

Introduction (Mgr Lane):

  1. I would like to begin this Liturgy by welcoming all of you to this church on the first anniversary of the Carrickmines fire in which 11 people died

I welcome the Connors, Gilbert, and Lynch families who are with us today grieving the loss of their loved ones.

I wish also to welcome many other relatives, friends, and agencies working with the travelling community who have joined us for this Anniversary Mass. I welcome Fr. Derek Farrell, Parish Priest of the travelling people.

I welcome my colleague Fr Peter Byrne, Team Assistant in this Parish and Chaplain to Queen of Angels National School where some of the children who died in the Carrickmines fire went to school over the years. We have gathered here this morning as a Christian community to pray for and commemorate the lives of the 11 individuals who died in the Carrickmines Tragedy.

  1. There are 3 parts to this liturgy:

In part one Father Derek will call forth the names of those who died, and as the names are read out, the individual candles will be placed in front of the altar.

Father Peter then will incense the altar and the candles representing each one of those who died.

Part 2 will be a celebration of an Anniversary Mass for those who died so tragically 12 months ago

Part 3 will be a short blessing of a plaque specially commissioned in honour of the members of the Connors, Gilbert and Lynch families who died in the fire

  1. An underlying theme of this service is the importance of keeping alive the painful memory of those who died one year ago. This painful memory endures on a daily basis in the minds and hearts of the grieving families.

It is a challenge for the rest of us to keep alive that memory in the hope that something like this will never happen again.

It is important to keep alive this disturbing memory within society, within local authorities, and among politicians to ensure that a tragedy of this magnitude may never take place again.

In keeping this painful memory alive we are all forced to ask difficult questions:

Has anything changed in society in our relationships with the Travelling community in the last 12 months?

Have adequate safeguards been installed on halting sites to ensure that nothing like this occurs again.

Have appropriate support structures been put in place in traveller accommodation so that this kind of tragedy does not happen again?

These are uncomfortable questions for all of us to ask as we remember the Carrickmines tragedy today.

As a society and as a Christian community we have a duty to remember the tragedies of the past so that they may not be repeated in the future.

It is so easy for us in the settled community to forget what happened, while the painful reality remains permanently present in the hearts of the grieving families.

We pray and hope within this liturgy that there will be some healing of the enduring pain and loss suffered by the Connors, Gilbert, and Lynch families.


  • Homily from Father Derek Farrell, for First Anniversary Mass, Monday 10 October 2016


Dear Jim & Jo and members of the Connors Family, dear John & Ben, & Annmarie, & Caroline, & Bridget, & Tina, & Paddy and  members of the Lynch Family, dear Harry & Amanda and  members of the Gilbert Family, dear friends.

I know from personal experience how difficult the gathering for the anniversary of a loved one can be, and so how immeasurably more difficult this must be for you, the families of Thomas & Sylvia, Jim, Christy, and Baby Mary, Willie & Tara, Jodie, Kelsey, Baby Angel, and Jimmy, light of Heaven to them. I hope you will feel comforted and draw strength from the presence and prayers of all who are here with you this morning, and from the many more who are keeping you in prayer at this time.

Today marks the exact first anniversary of the day ‘when everything happened on the site of the Connors Family home on the Glenamuck Road, Carrickmines. In conversations leading up to this day, I have heard family members speak not of ‘the day of the tragedy’, but of the day ‘when everything happened. It is a phrase that covers so much more of the reality you have lived over the past year.

‘When everything happened…’ – it tells something of the multiple and multi-layered losses you have suffered in losing your much-loved family members who died a year ago today, it tells something of the deep shock and trauma of the horrific event and its aftermath, and in a particular and ongoing way for you Jim & Jo and family, it tells something of the additional loss of your homes, the anxieties and worries around your temporary emergency accommodation, and so much more.


The Gospel (we have listened to) tells us that two of the followers of Jesus were travelling along the road. They were sad, in deep grief, thinking back on and talking together about when everything happened – the suffering and death of Jesus on the Cross, the darkness coming over the whole land, the earthquake tearing the veil of the Temple. Although at first they do not recognise him, both of the disciples experience the warmth and comforting presence of the Lord beside them in their journey of grief.

It is only when they then gather around the table together that they recognise the risen Jesus in the breaking of bread. The same Risen Lord is with us as we break the bread of the life in this Mass. The same Risen Lord in whose Resurrection our loved ones are called to share.

And through faith in the Communion of Saints, we believe that we are united with those who have gone ahead of us, and that as we pray for them in this Mass, the most powerful prayer we have, they are conscious of our prayer, and in turn are praying for us.

The two disciples of Jesus were reminded of Jesus, and of Jesus’ words and actions at the last supper before his death, when he said ‘Do this in memory of me’.

That is what we do at this Mass, and at every Mass. In this Anniversary Mass though, we also bring the memory of each of the loved ones we have lost. And so, we take a few moments to share just a few of those happy memories, to place alongside the million and one personal memories you will always have of your departed loved ones.

Those we grieve & remember

Thomas and Sylvia, as a couple, were seen as ‘a match made in Heaven’. Deeply loving and devoted to each other, they never left each other’s side. They were, it’s said, ‘the best father and mother that any children could ask for’.

Thomas loved his family, his family was his life. Sylvia, in the words of her mother-in-law Jojo, was ‘the best girl you could ask for’.  She loved being a mother herself, and was a very good mother. Her husband and her children were her life.

Jim (5yrs) was a lovely boy, a very happy boy. Christy (3yrs) was full of life, by times quiet, a big boy for his age, Daddy and Mammy’s little boy and, up until Baby Mary’s arrival, ‘the babbie’. Jim and Christy were very close brothers, very close to their aunts and uncles, and very clever for their age. Baby Mary was aged just 5 months. When Baby Mary came she was much treasured by the whole family. As a family, the parents of Thomas put it very simply, ‘They were a lovely family, lovely children. We loved them.’

As a couple Tara and Willie were themselves very loving and close. John, Willie’s brother put it so simply and beautifully when he said: ‘God made them, God matched them.’  They were a really happy, loving family.

Willie cherished what he called his ‘three girls’ Tara, Kelsey, & Jodie. When it came to care of her family and taking care of others, Tara took charge. Beautiful inside and out, always smiling, easy-going, never grumpy, a fantastic Mum, her children always came first. Tara adored her father Harry, and was very, very close to Amanda – as her much-loved twin sister.

Tara and Willie’s unborn child was joyfully anticipated and fully embraced in the love with which they and the family awaited their child. Jimmy, brother of Willie and Sylvia, very popular and loved by family and friends, – he had ‘a heart of gold’.


Along with our memories, we also need something we can see and touch, in memory of our loved ones. And so we have our various memorials, such as church plaques both here and in Bray, the Glenamuck Road site plaque and hopefully the larger memorial being planned, the family headstones and memorial plaques, and the beautiful new grotto beside the Lynch’s home in Fassaroe, built through the inspiration and perspiration of Ben Lynch and all those who helped.

The Marian grotto has the beautiful intention of prayerfully remembering not just the family members the Lynches, Gilberts, and Connors have lost, but also family and friends that others in the wider Fassaroe and Bray community have lost. It was built with love and completed with the beautiful generousity and help of others, so reminiscent of the spontaneous kindness and generousity of a year ago.

Then, there were the widespread instinctive outpourings of support for the families, so many acts of compassion and goodness, so much goodwill shown. The flowers, messages, books of condolences, prayer vigils, Masses, the shrines, the prayers, the songs.

Now, there is the gathering in remembrance and prayer, the blessing of the headstones, the dedication of the memorial plaques. We cannot let the good aspects that came out of the tragedy vanish. As communities of faith, as fellow citizens, as fellow human beings we need to create not just lasting memorials in stone, but also a lasting memorial in our hearts and minds.

Building on response

Such a lasting memorial I think would be what I spoke of this time last year in the Funeral Mass – if ‘when everything happened’ proved to be a watershed moment, so as to bring some meaning to the tragic and seemingly senseless loss, for the tragedy’s survivor children especially to come to know their family’s deaths had made a difference as a turning point for our country, and particularly for the Travellers of our country.

Yes, for a few precious moments at this awful time last year the eyes of the nation were opened and we could glimpse beyond inherited preconceptions, barriers of fear, and prejudice, through the spontaneous reaching out to the unknown, the other, the ‘outsider’, in the gestures of recognition, common humanity and compassion, genuine heartfelt expressions of sympathy and support.

There is evidence in the past year of various statutory agencies and services, government departments, and local authorities widely consulting and closely working with the various National and local Traveller organisations and communities, and indeed The Parish of the Travelling People. This is shown for example in the work of the National Fire Audit, the Carrickmines Steering Committee, and the ongoing work of the National Traveller and Roma Inclusion Strategy steering groups. This close cooperation, consultation, collaboration is going in the right direction but more is needed. A generous and committed response is needed from all quarters and at all levels – personal, community, Church, and State. The building of mutual relationship, respect and understanding, recognition and valuing of identity is possible and with goodwill and determination, within our grasp.

Perhaps it is providential, that as this first Anniversary occurs the RTÉ programme, ‘The Travellers’ is being screened, with its simultaneously beautiful and sad, shockingly disturbing narrative that itself demands attention, reflection and a response, a different approach, that new departure. It also coincides with the timing of my moving on from my term as Parish Priest in the Parish of the Travelling People after 10 years. My final call as outgoing Parish Priest on this painful occasion of the first Anniversary is, that as part of our ongoing response to ‘everything that happened’, we’d all try make it that watershed it needs to be.

Concluding prayer/blessing

For now though, in and through our Mass we place into God’s loving embrace, Thomas and Sylvia, and their precious children Jim, Christy, and Baby Mary; Willie and Tara, the children Jodie and Kelsey they loved so deeply and unborn child they so joyfully were expecting, and Willie and Sylvia’s brother, Jimmy.

It is so very obvious from all the rivers of tears that have flowed for all those who died in this tragedy, that they each, both adults and children were very much loved, and loving of each other. Our remembering of them today reminds us that love is our mission on our journey through this world, no matter how long or short that journey may be.

And so dear families, dear friends, through graces received to persevere in faith, hope and love, and through your care of one another, and others care and support for you, may the Lord hold you in the palm of his hands.

May the presence of the Risen Lord, who transformed the two disciples on the road from desolation and sadness, to consolation and hope, comfort you.

May our coming together on this First Anniversary fortify and strengthen you.

May you continue to find comfort in the community of family, comfort in the community of faith, in the community of Travellers, the community of neighbours, the community of fellow Irish men and women, and of people of goodwill everywhere. Amen.


  • Further Information: Annette O Donnell, Director of Communications, Archdiocese of Dublin 01 8360723.